The Seventh House also represents ruptures in these partnerships, including divorce, lawsuits, and the end of business relationships. Find where the Seventh House is located in your birth chart to get a deeper understanding of its influence in your life. To get a free birth chart reading, visit the many sites that have them available online. The Seventh House is located directly across from the First House in your birth chart.
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Libra is a cardinal sign, which makes those with Libra in their chart strong leaders. Its influence on the Seventh House encourages you to know your worth and choose partners that will make you truly happy. Libra is also an air sign. These signs are talented with communication and possess a deep intellectual side. Libra’s rule over the Seventh House inspires you to practice open and honest communication in your relationships.
If you’re in a romantic relationship, for example, practice listening to your partner and asking what’s on their mind.
Even the most stable relationships are a little unpredictable. Let your partner grow and change, and push yourself to compromise sometimes.
The Seventh House encourages you to be a little more vulnerable in your partnerships. If you’ve had a hard day, for example, open up to your partner about it. Your bond will deepen if you let them see this side of you.
Remember that it’s okay to take your time before you trust and open up to people. Let yourself get to know new friends and partners at a natural pace so that you feel comfortable and satisfied in your partnerships.
Remember all of the qualities that make you an amazing partner and friend. If you ever start to question why your partner chose you, for example, remind yourself of that list.
Give yourself (and the people in your life) a break every now and then. Let the house be a little messy and allow your partner some space to improve themselves in their own time.
If your friend has been flaking on you a lot lately, advocate for your needs. Respectfully let them know that you’d like to get more advance notice if they can’t make it next time (even if you understand that they’ve got a busy schedule).
To learn how to trust others, trust yourself first. Follow your intuition and own your emotions. If you meet someone that treats you well, know that you deserve to be happy and try to open up to them.
Try to strike a balance between your need for adventure and your desire for close relationships. Take your partner along on a trip instead of traveling solo and send postcards to your friends while you’re away pursuing your dreams.
If you’ve been hurt in the past, remember that not everyone will treat you the same way. Keep putting yourself out there and resist closing yourself off to new connections.
The Seventh House’s influence encourages you to be a little more vulnerable in your partnerships. Challenge yourself to express your feelings openly with your friends and partners, even if it feels a little uncomfortable.
Take some me-time every now and then to focus on yourself. Go to a movie alone or visit a coffee shop to read a few chapters of your favorite book. You’ll return to your friends and partners feeling refreshed and whole.
